I have only been seeing this guy for a little over a month. There were things he did that did not make sense, which I recently pieced together and realized he is hiding us from his ex's mom. Him and his roommate both work with his ex's mom, so I am not allowed to stay at his apartment and he gets really paranoid if I drop him off at his work. I guess his ex is coming home from school and wants to talk to him, he said that he is unsure if he wants to talk to her but he does not want to get back together. Is it too early to even show concerns over this? We haven't exactly had the "where is this going?" talk. I kind of want to end it now because he clearly cannot be over her if he is hiding us, and I don't want to be left in the dirt if she comes home and they do get back together. So I am not going to continue dating him and like him even more for that to happen. What should I do?
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Certainly don't end a relationship because he is willing to have a conversation with his ex!
By him not being "over" her, I take it to mean that he still feels hurt about the ending of their r/ship. That is not a bad thing. It only becomes a bad thing if he either changes his mind and wants to be with her again, or if it clouds his judgment about you and commits more to you than he might otherwise do.
Those are the two things I'd discuss with him and be watchful for. Otherwise, keep seeing him.
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