So I am a 22 year old virgin. I haven't had a boyfriend in a while, and honestly I'm just ready to have sex. There is a guy that I've been flirting with, clearly nothing serious, and we've fooled around a few times, never having sex. We've both been pretty open and honest with each other about what our intentions are and how much farther we'd like to take this. I'm thinking about asking him if he would like to have sex, while making it clear that it will be my first time. I know some people are very into waiting for "the one" or someone they are in love with but I'm not sure if I'm into that. How should I go about doing this? Or is it not okay to do?
Most Helpful Guy
The thing is eventually you'll fall for him, happens after sex even if you don't feel it now. The intimacy will make you crumble. And he won't be ready for a relationship because.. You know.. And that would just haunt you as your first time.
How about , just try to get in a relationship first then then see where it goes. You won't regret it much even if the relationship doesn't last.0
Most Helpful Girl
I agree with you, if you feel like you wanna have sex than go for it.
how would you go about it, I don t know.
what were his intentions with you, did he ever tried mentioning sex?
if he is flirting with you and you re both fooling around then def he s down for sex. just make him go lower while he is making out with you :P0