please answer it
Most Helpful Girl
***Unpopular Opinion ALERT**
It depends. If it was someone I recently became friends with, then I won't stop them. If it's someone I've been friends with for a while, it might sting a bit.
I personally think it's a bit immature to behave that way if you get rejected. It's understandable as to why they feel that way but to cut off everything with that person because I said no is a little much.
If they aren't disrespectful pieces of shit or using you as the rebound, there should be no problem there.
I'm not disputing his feelings but God, it doesn't help us feel better. I don't like to be put in positions like that because I know what it's like to be rejected.. it sucks. For me, having to reject someone is really hard because I've been that girl who had a crush on boy and the boy didn't like me back because he actually liked my friend...
I have a guy friend who had a HUGE crush on me for TWO years and he had asked me out, of course I said no. I didn't see him that way and I wasn't about to lead him on. He was sad about it but got over it and we're still talking now just fine.
I think if he really cared about you as a person, he'd still try to keep the friendship there. I wholeheartedly think it's stupid to cut someone off because they couldn't give you the answer you wanted..0
Most Helpful Guy
It should be totally understandable. Feels were hurt, can't force what someone doesn't want.0