Should i expect that my boyfriend is going to cheat on me? Everyone gets cheated on at least once in their lifetime, right? I'm definitely not anything special, so due to statistics, i'm going to be cheated on, right?
if he is one of the good guys he will not cheat. thinking he will and posibley accusing him of it when he isn't can be just as damaging to a relationship as cheating can (i know this from experience). eventually resentment will grow from the lack of trust
I'm beginning to believe so BUT my perspective is from an affluent, even socially mean background and reports from highly attractive friends that include models, world class stewardesses, sexually permissive/curious, heirs to fortunes... et al. IF you are talking when dating (as expected) and not so much when married (the real definition of cheating = sexual in the old days)
Every one probably does get cheated on at least once if their life if they have enough partner's. I just think only a certain percentage find out. If you never find out you have not experienced being cheated on even if it did happen. Personally I don't think you should proceed like you will be cheated on as you will likely push your guy away