Hell no. Just because some chicks tend to like fuckboys, doesn't mean we all do. And for the record, the girls that are into fuckboys don't want to date them for wo they are. They think that they're gonna magically become faithful for them (too many chickflicks) so they basically don't want them for who they are.
Maybe you could hang out with some fuckboys and try to understand why they're attractive to women. Then you might not need to become one yourself, you could just steal some "tricks", and by that, I don't mean "tricks", but some attractive traits you could cultivate, why still being yourself.
Like someone else said, you don't "win" at dating. Or rather: it's only a win if the other person wins too. It sounds like you're shacking up with girls who either a) aren't as into you as you are to them, or b) are after short-term dating, i. e. sex. While you seem to want a relationship. You have to look for someone who shares your goals, and where attraction is fairly mutual.