So i watched a YouTube video of this 'dating coach' and his first tips to guys is to not being that dude who keeps looking for constant signs a girl likes you and just go for it. No waiting tor signs just go in for it and ask her out.
yes.. just do it.. what bad thing can possibly happen.. she says no? you say that's cool and move on with life.. you can get over a crush faster like this.. and you don't waste time and probably find someone better than her for you.. but if you had kept on waiting for ''signs'' who knows how many girls you have ignored who could've taken her place..
Easier said than done but I do think its good advice.
Just going for it prevents you from wasting time and getting overly invested into a person only for them to reject you. The longer you wait the harder it will be to swallow that rejection. Also, I do believe by waiting too long to create sexual tension you cause her to see you in that passive buddy kinda way and end up hurting whatever chance you had of her ever seeing you as a lover.
if you find someone attractive on the street, cold approach doesn't require you get any signs from them, just do it and see what happens.
if you've been liking someone for a while now it would be wise to get a feeling of how they feel about you, but if you can't help it, just go for it. whatever happens, if it doesn't work out, just hit the pass button and move on to the next girl. there is always another girl.
I think it's a healthy dose of both, you have to take a risk, as well as look for the signs, if you don't look for at least the little signs you'd be wasting your time with someone that doesn't like you, or loosing out on someone who does.
If you don't take a risk a chance then you'll be wondering what if your entire life, and regretting not doing it when you had the chance. I took a chance like that a while back and while it didn't pan out with me and it was a roller coster to say the least, I don't regret it at all, and it led the way to something better, a good friendship and some good information for both of us.
So while the risk is sometimes worth it and sometimes not, sometimes you are rewarded with something you weren't expecting but just as good.
You can force a response. Just look at someone and smile. They'll either smile back, look away quickly or pull a face. Their reaction will tell you whether they're open to being approached. Some will react as if they aren't interested because they're shy though, you just have to learn how to tell the difference.
Yes, strongly agree. If you wait for signs that the other person likes you back, you'll either be frustrated that they don't show those signs and become anxious around them or you'll overanalyze everything they say and do.