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Probably the most annoying thing would be to not care enough to even ask/post a question exactly like you have. Instead I would like her to care enough to post/ask the exact question that you have.
So, if I had to guess at what I can infer from your question, you are doing everything MORE than right! It's a fair question! Just don't get to caught up in what you seem to be asking! ;)1