We never 'dated' we have been on one date though. She seems to like me but I never got a chance to make her want me more.
i acted kinda if needy and a tad clingy which drove her away more. Her only reason for not going further with me is she didn't feel a connection. (Which obviously means something else as there is always a reason, I asked her a few times to give me the truth no matter how bad it might hurt but she never said why)
she likes this other guy now and things seem to be going well between them, for some reason if it doesn't work out and I get another chance what should I do.
I was pretty much doing all the chasing before and never really gave her space to think about me. She still doesn't know that much about me and I know a lot about her.
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe she didn't actually feel a connection. It happens.
Also: "I asked her a few times to give me the truth"
umm, yeah you sound kind of needy in my opinion. That's one of the issues she probably had with you.0
Most Helpful Guy
Wow, u know u have been fucking up by acting needy clingy and desperate. ThTs weak behaviour.
Plus when u were on date, did u go for the kiss or u acted like typical nice guy? Becoz if u dont go for the kiss, woman perceives u as being weak.
Now she is dating other guy, the best u can do now is stop all communication from your end, and tell her 'hey, if it doesn't workout with this dude, let me know'
And then u walk and never look back.
If she ever reaches out to u, make a date and get physical with her.
But i guess u have blown it up with her.0