A few weeks ago a guy came in to my work and started flirting with me. It became quickly apparent that we had good initial conversational chemistry when we chatted for ten minutes or so during my shift.
He came to visit me again at work and I had fun talking with him. He asked me if I'd like to get a coffee with him and I said no.
He's funny, interesting, charming and confident from what I can tell but he's not good looking.
I want to say yes because I think that we'd have fun on a date but I can't get past the fact that he isn't a good looking guy at all. I'm still undecided.
What should I do? Perhaps other girls out there might be able to tell me what they'd do in this situation.
Here's a picture. It's not the best quality but it's all I have.
Most Helpful Guy
Well, there is nothing wrong is wanting a physically attractive person in your life, but then I hope you are not sacrificing the personality aspect of that person. Both are important.
I can understand that you are not feeling attraction towards that person and if you are not feeling any attraction towards him then you shouldn't go on a date with him. There is no point in that, nobody will be happy.0
Most Helpful Girl
What are you talking about? He's not bad looking at all. I would give him a chance even if I didn't like his looks. How would you feel if somebody you could have totally been compatible with and looks really nice passed on you because they didn't think you were hot enough? Then again if looks really matter to you that much then maybe you should save him the heart ache. I'm not trying to be rude at all, I promise. But... probably not a nice thing to do showing this guys picture online without him knowing it.
All of my relationships haven't been the best looking guys but it was their personalities I was after and when you get to know someone you start to like their looks more and their different flaws and quirks.0