Girls, if you are into a guy and he asks you out, but the day he chooses you happen to be busy would you suggest another day and time?

So a guy asks you out and you like him. Unfortunately the date he chooses to go out with you happens to be a day where you're busy. Would you suggest another day and time when you are not?


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  • Yes, I would suggest another day and time. As much as I could like him, I wouldn't stop doing the things I should do because of him.

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What Girls Said 27

  • Of course

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  • ya of course i would

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  • If she doesn't suggest another time or date, it most likely isn't a priority. In my experience, not suggesting another time means exactly that. If I REALLY like a guy, I would not let him slip away because one time our schedules didn't add up.

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  • I don't see why not.

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  • Most definitely lol 😅😂 I would find out when I'm free and I'll tell him when I see him or message him (if I have his number lol)

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  • Of course I would! I really like the guy, so I'd want to see him when I could. Even if I wasn't sure of a free day or time, I'd offer some sort of suggestion like "sometime next week" or "in the next few days."

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    • if a girl did not suggest another day or time is that a subtle way of her saying she's not interested?

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    • Fair enough. I guess you just have to wait and see where it goes.

    • lol well nothings happened yet.. just kinda preparing myself for all the different avenues this could go :P

  • I would have to. School first or else!

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  • If I liked him, definitely.

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  • Of course! If I'm really into him I'll make our next date a priority and attempt to make time to reschedule. I'd ask for his free days and time and give him mine and we'll get to it asap! 😃

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  • it depends on how important the task is what I am busy with..

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  • Of course. Or I would reconsider my existing plans.

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  • Yes I would and tell him my schedule for that day.

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    • And if you weren't into him you wouldn't do that right?

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    • You're straight forward i know lol. But if a girl is more subtle about and doesn't offer another day or time is that a sign she isn't interested?

    • Normally they would avoid you like the plague and stop talking.

  • Of course

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  • yes i would... i d say, i am busy at that day, but free at that day... If only i am really interested in meeting

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  • yes I would ask if we could change the day as I had something on but would really like to go out with him

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  • Most definitely!

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    • And if you weren't into him you wouldn't do that right?

    • Exactly. I'd just be like "sorry I can't make it then. Thanks for asking. Byeeee"

  • Of course. I'd tell him that I had previous arrangements and needed a raincheck.

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  • Yes, if I truly wanted to go out with him, I would ask if it was okay if we picked another date.

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  • Sure I would, otherwise he'd think I'm rejecting him.

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  • no i'd wait for him to suggest

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  • Yeah. Of course I would

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  • If I liked him yea I would set a private special date at Applebee's.

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    • lol you really like that place :P

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    • never lol. i go to Denny's like a good American :P

    • Wawa better more fattening like a good americana

  • Yes. Surely, ask her again

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  • Of course

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    • And if you weren't into him you wouldn't do that right?

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    • like you'd just say 'oh i have plans' and then just go about your day?

    • No. I'd say what the plans are unless I don't want to actually do them.

  • I personally would. And have done so a number of times.

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  • If I really like the guy I would definitely suggest another date and time. Even my best friend and I frequently have to reschedule our plans... it's no big deal.

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  • Of course I would. If I really liked the guy, I would try to make my plans with him first priority. However, if I really couldn't, then I would most definitely ask for a different day!

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What Guys Said 2

  • Seems totally reasonable to me, don't see any issue.

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  • I like this question, it's interesting to know how girls think in this regard

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