i mean i have no problem rejecting guys who just aren't my type at all, guys im not attracted to, and guys with a lot of deal breakers. im also very picky (not because i expect a guy to look like a model and just be perfect, but because i just have my own type, i like what i like) but then there are some guys who i just can't seem to reject. the ones who are attractive, have nice personalities, no bad habits, hard working, just really good on paper. but i just dont genuinely like them. i like everything about them, but not actually them. and every single time i make the same mistake. i always date them hoping my feelings will change and increase, and they dont. but the worst part is that they end up breaking up with me after realizing we're just not that good together. and then i feel stupid because i could've just listening to my instincts from the start and not even had started the relationship. and then i just feel depressed. how do i avoid this?
How can I learn to reject guys who I feel nothing towards?
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You probably have enough experience now to know this now. So when you sense this, that he's great but you don't like him, then don't go out with him hoping for change because, as you know now from experience, it won't happen. If you're really not sure though and you're worried about the guys feelings just be completely honest with him from the beginning. If nothing else, he should appreciate the honesty.1
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