I've been getting to know the guy that I like for a month now, but most of the time I ask him out. He's actually asked me twice, but both times I said no. Once was because he asked me out for drinks (to which I later explained to him I don't drink) and the next time was over to his place which I wasn't comfortable with considering I hardly knew him.
Now normally I ask him first if he wants to get a coffee etc and he's never turned me down (if he has he's explained on the spot and made sure to re-arrange a time). Could it be that he waits for me to ask so I suggest something I want to do since I've turned him down twice, or could it be that he's just not interested in being more than friends?
Most Helpful Guy
Need more info to give an accurate response.0
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe he expects you to initiate again because you've turned him down.0