It's just visual.. and social. Every married guy I know who goes to them sees them as entertainment and a place to unwind. Especially when a group of guys goes.
Considering you aren't in an "official" relationship, this also gives him the "green light" in his mind to not limit himself at all.
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how much time has passed between breakup and reconciliation?
Trust. That's it , you can always go with him. It's not a huge problem if you trust him and you aren't insecure. It's ok for him to go once in a while but every weekend could be a problem. If you aren't secure with the relationship and trust him then leave him alone.
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Hmm. I have had several gf's that had just as much fun as me there or more. It always spiced up our relationship with or without bringing a dancer home. But it is definitely not meant for a jealous or insecure girlfriend..
He doesn't seem to respect you enough to me. :/
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