I am really shy, and also I guess a "nice guy".
In highschool, even at work I always hard a crush or two always kept me going, when one ended I would crush on a new girl sooner or later... it always kept on going like that...
One day (24) I met this girl at my work.
Maybe I misread things, maybe she led me on but I fell in love with an attention *****... I really thought she liked me but she broke my heart, I had talked to her for a year and we got so close until I asked her out and she said she had a boyfriend...
Two years have gone by, I know you can't find love but will I ever love the same way? The feelings I used to have, fantasies, just light hearted ones I will never have them again? Because of this one girl who broke my heart?
I talk to new girls, I see new girls all the time.. pretty ones, smart ones but how I used to feel about girls before has changed...
Will I ever crush/love again?
Most Helpful Girl
You will love again! Mark my words.
You have to realise that the person you had feelings for was not who you thought she was. She was never the one for you, and deep inside you know it.
You'll be back on your feet again. Stronger than before.1
Most Helpful Guy
Whether you will love again or not, depends on whether you WANT to. If you let go of your past and seek girls with a clean slate, I don't see any reason why you can't fall in love again.1