I tend to like to help people and just do small nice things for people. Of course if I do find someone attractive I'll do a little more. However, I do that because it makes me feel good not for things in return. For example I have small crush on a girl and I let her borrow some of my comics. I do so because I like that she's enjoying reading them not because I expect anything in return. What I'm afraid of is that I might get taken advantage of later in life without realizing it. Or maybe if I'm doing these things for someone without expecting anything they won't have any interest in me. Is this trait something that will negatively impact my dating life. Because why buy the cow if the milk is free right?
I tend to do nice things for people not expecting anything in return. Will this trait hurt me in dating?
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"Of course if I do find someone attractive I'll do a little more"
What do you mean "they will take advantage of you"? Are you doing such things in order to make people have an interest in you? If that's the case, you actually EXPECT things IN RETURN.
You're simply fooling yourself to believe the opposite.0
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