Well I dated my ex for about a month and broke up with him after he asked me for a nude. Since then we have became very good friends and chatted close to everyday. He tries to flirt with me but I don't flirt back because he has a girlfriend and I don't want to be the girl to ruin that. However, recently he's been asking me for nudes and I say no and tell him to ask his girlfriend but insists that I send him one because he trusts me more. I don't know what to do anymore I'm scared I'll give into peer pressure and I can't tell his girlfriend because I don't want to ruin his relationship. I'm so lost and don't know what to do please help.
Most Helpful Guy
You broke up after he asked you for a nude. He has not changed. He is still trying to get nude pictures of you, so why are you good friends now? He has a girlfriend and yet he is asking you for nudes. that says a lot about his lack of character. You would not be ruining his relationship by telling here because he is ruining it by asking. She deserves to know.
And what is that shit about he trusts you more. for you to send nudes you have to trust him, not the other way around! He is just saying whatever to get you to send nude pictures. DO NOT DO IT!
I don't think you are so lost. I think you KNOW that you should not send any nudes to him (or anyone else at your age). Get wawy from him!2
Most Helpful Girl
Don't do it. He could be trying to use it against you, and with the way technology is now, it could go viral. I don't think you should ever send an ex a nude photo. It's not just that though. You're only 14 and that can be seen as child pornography. If it does get sent out, you could be charged for distributing child pornography and he could get charged for being in possession of it. There are just way too many risks for this to be a good idea, especially with an ex. It's not a good idea for teenage couples on good terms to do it either just because of the child porn thing. Keep your nudes to yourself.1