I always had conversations with my sister and said (sis) one of these days I'm going to quit trying altogether. She'd then ask what if the perfect girl came one day after you quit then what? I said then I'd turn her away and not feel bad about it at all. I feel like I wouldn't be able to help it (already almost to that point) the capability for love is leaving me anyways just getting tired and bored with the whole thing. (The only girls that crush on me are girls who are just not my type) and it's a headache because I have to turn them down knowing they may be feeling how I feel. I guess a separate question is should I just date someone who has low self esteem that has a crush on me and make them happy? (I suppose on my end someone is better than no one also). For now I just watch shows with female characters I like and dream. Please help :)
If you don't find someone by your deadline then what?
What Girls Said 2
For me, is all bout plans, and back up plans. I have plans on having a husband after we both have established careers (24-27) after that I plan on having kids and having a family (27-30) Now im the kind of gal that have a bio-timline. so i refuse to have kids after 30 so my deadline is 30.
I told myself, if im 29 and for some reason i can't find a man to share my life with, I would get a sperm donor and be a single mom by choice. Thats by backup plan.
the point is, its ok to have deadlines for yourself. but i dont think it should mess up what happens after. For all ik i could meet the love of my life after 30, but i wouldn't let that stop me just because i chose to have a kid.1
What Guys Said 1
Funny thing I never looked for love. Love kinda found me. I think you would be surprised how someone you think isn't your type might be if you just try.2
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