I don't know why but I can just feel he's the one, but everyone says otherwise. I'm 24 never been married no kids. He's 42, divorced, 2 kids. He treats me like a queen and makes me feel really comfortable. I've never felt that type of security with anyone else. My parents nor my family approve of him. My brother thinks it's gross that I'm dating a man old enough to be my father. I'm trying to not let the negative comments affect me, but it gets to me. I'm very confused. Any advice please?
Most Helpful Guy
No, my friend started going with an older guy with 3 kids and, last I heard, was still with him. She was about 24 at the time, and he was probably in his 40's. I dropped contact with her because the last time I talked to her I got the feeling she was afraid he would be jealous.0
Most Helpful Girl
Dont let opinions affect you. Age doesn't matter. If you let it negatively affect your expectations going into the relationship it will ruin your relationship. Just live and love him. he's probably much more intelligent and obviously more experienced so bring out his soft fun young sides and just live. Age is a number. It doesn't doom or determine a relationship.1