Would you be made if you found out the guy you have been dating and sleeping with was really a girl. How do I tell my girl that im not a man?

Updates:
To clarify I dont have an actual real life penis but I do use a strapon dildo, wear clothes do bed as im body conscious and do it with the lights out. Hope that clears up any confusion.

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What Guys Said 12

  • mad... kind of because basically i'd feel like the person lied to me. so a lie being a betrayal of trust is frustrating but even worse simply makes me think twice about the person since i don't know if i can trust them

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  • There was a case like this in the news, a lesbian was doing the same thing, unfortunately she was charged with rape by deception. You might want to break up with her, just to save yourself jail time.

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  • Man, I want to make a little joke out of this, but I won't unless you want me to xD

    Anyway, I think that from the moment that you two are like "You like me, I like you. Let's Go Exclusive"
    Like when you two are official, I would bring it up

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  • You could "sound her out" by watching lesbian porn with her. If she took that well, then you could watch a documentary about transgendered people, and somewhere in there confess. Good luck. Let us all know how it works out.

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  • How is that not rape by deception? I mean, seriously?

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  • Look at the hand, there huge difference hand on it. Women hands always really smooth and guy, no matter what is rough.

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  • Ask her if she's a lesbians, then after she says "no", tell her, "you're about to be..."

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  • if you don't mind me asking, how does the "sleeping with" part work? do you mean just sleeping?

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    • I use a strapon dildo.

  • How did she not know? There's no way you have a penis...

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  • Show her

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  • You should have said this before the first date. May as well go tell her, the relationship is gonna be over anyway.

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  • Your vagina might give it away.

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What Girls Said 6

  • I would not only be super disgusted, I'd probably sue for damages.
    How to tell her? Say: I was born a woman.
    Simple.

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  • Show her your vag, troll.

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  • Do you mean you're a transgender but wanna tell your girlfriend you were originally a girl?

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    • No im still a girl. Im just a lesbian who dresses like a guy.

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    • Well I have virtually none existant breasts and I always kept most of my clothes on and told her I waa body conscious. We always did it with the lights off.

    • But how can she not notice?
      Uhh nevermind, just tell her and hope she'll be understanding, do you know if she's even bisexual or is she totally straight?

  • I'd be pretty mad, honestly u should just tell them and hope for the best

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  • I would be extremely furious and break up IMMEDIATELY.

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  • Cause a guy has a vagina and XX chromosomes? Yea, mother nature and evolution didn't mmake it like that. But nice being a troll

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