My question is pretty much summed up above. However, here is a bit of background for you. Basically I am asking to get an independent opinion from people who don't know either of us.
I want to start off by pointing out that I got the impression from the beginning (when I met her 7 months ago) that she did, in fact like me. She flirted with me outrageously, touched me a lot, sent me VERY flirtatious messages and would always talk to me online when we weren't together. However, even whilst all of this was going on, she would talk to me about her dating life.
In the end, I asked her out to the cinema. We went together on a Friday evening and she made a massive effort with her hair, makeup and clothing. Everything went well, but we did not kiss or anything else of that nature, but we agreed we would do it again in the near future.
After this, she went on two dates with another guy who lived 50 miles away and told me. I had had enough by this point so I told her that I liked her. I got rejected so I took it on the chin and thought that was that. I told her clearly that I did not want to here about her dating life anymore and she agreed to not talk about it.
After this conversation she is really awkward and won't talk to me. But then Within a week, she's fine again and telling me all about her next date - dinner (she even goes so far as telling me the time and place it's at).
Fast forward two months. Today she has gone out of her way to tell me about how she spent two days with a guy she met online who lives 45 miles away. She travelled to meet him, went out for dinner, blah, blah, blah. She knows that I do not want to know. She went out of her way to tell me, as in she brought it up and told me everything I didn't want to know.
Why would she do this? Any responses would be appreciated - I'm completely lost here!
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That's a very interesting situation. Coming from a female perspective, she might be telling you because she wants to keep you hooked, which sounds weird, but hear me out. When someone likes you, it's a huge ego boost, and even if you don't reciprocate it's a feeling you don't want to let go of. She might be telling you about all this to make you jealous and to show you that she is desirable. It's a subtle tactic that some women use, but usually with exes. She could also just be trying to make conversation, but if that's the case it's pretty rude, especially since you specified that you didn't want to hear about it. But honestly that's pretty weird and if she keeps doing it, I'd reiterate to her that you do NOT want to hear it and it's really bothering you. Hopefully that helps.0