I will be 22 in several months, and I can honestly say I have never had a girlfriend, at least nothing exclusive. I have been on dates, but most of these girls were unnatractive to me. I had sex one time, but the girl I had sex with wanted nothing more (it was just a hookup). So yes I have had sex but not in a meaningful sense, and my count is just 1.
I am looking for something particular. I want an attractive woman who had never had a boyfriend. Yes... I know, I know. It is just that I don't want to give her the pleasure of being my first relationship/love if I am not hers. Plus, I want the intensity of feelings to be mutual.
But I am running out of options.
I work in a profession dominated by men. I got kicked out of college recently for a stupid prank. I live at home with my mom and I work when I can. But that is it.
I am thinking about living alone in the wilderness in solitude, because I don't want to face the fact I will not find that particular woman I am looking for and having to watch loved ones and friends get married while I remain alone.
There is a girl on here (whose name I mention out of respect) that meets my description, but she does not want to go out with me. That is the problem too: when I do find that one that meets what I am seeking, she does not like me in return.
What to do?
Most Helpful Girl
Start by being realistic. How many attractive girls are in their late teens and early 20's and haven't had a boyfriend? Not many.
It doesn't really matter either. What she has with you will be different and special from any other relationship she's had in the past, because you're a new person and you guys will have your own dynamic.0
Most Helpful Guy
This may not be the most comforting thing to hear but, to be honest she will come, but you'll probably have to go through a lot of obstacles just to find her. Honestly I believe most people aren't compatible with one another. Most people don't find the right one as quick as it seems.0