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Not true. A guy doesn't need to make you his priority to be truly interested. And unless you are already his girlfriend, you shouldn't be a priority past someone cool he wants to spend time with. If you are his priority, he likely doesn't have a life.
Secondly, while yes I agree if a guy sits back and puts in absolutely no effort that can be a sign of disinterest... if he's agreeing to see you regularly, then clearly there is some interest. If I like a girl and she is pursuing me, I'm on board. Now I'll put in some effort as well, but it shouldn't be the expectation that if that guy isn't putting in all the effort, while the girl sits back that he's not really interested. That's just nonsense.
If you find someone you're compatible with, there will be very little pursuit and much will just happen naturally.2