Keep in mind, there is no way to enlarge it. How would you get through life? Would you continue to date, or would you stay single and keep to yourself? Would you just focus on career goals, sports and vacations?
Alright, well I guess I'm worried over nothing then. Thanks for the responses everyone, and it really helps some guys to hear that.
I'd definitely continue to date. I would just focus on improving things I have control over and try to be the best version of myself. Which is actually kind of what I do anyway, as a girl. I play to my strengths. So, I would probably put energy into having a nice body, a good career/job, work on having a fun, outgoing personality, keep trying to be a good person, etc. Also, specific to if I was a guy, I would be the type to talk to girls with confidence, ask out the ones I like, not shy away from flirting and being sexual in the right situation and things like that. I think building up solid social skills is really important.
I would just live. I think after higschool the brunt of the mocking and really ignorant shit would be done, I'd know where I stood, and I would do two things.
One is focus on other aspects of my sex game lol. If I wasn't impressive in penetration I would probably develop a really good oral technique, and as I got better at that look into vaginal stimulation tequniques that were avaiable to me (a lot of vaginal feeling is only in the outer third, or something like that).
The other is get better at reading women. Learn how to find which women will be accepting and which ones will not. Find women who prefer or who are more stimulated by external manipulation.
I guess as long as I was motivated to find a partner. And I'm thinking like 3 1/2 or less inches for small here (measured from pubic bone to tip), guys have totally crazy ideas about penis size for some reason. If I were larger, I would not think that I had a small penis and forget all about it lol.
I just had this issue! I was seeing someone recently and he is a very tall, not super skinny guy so I was so shocked when his penis was not at all proportionate. It was pretty difficult to have sex at first because it kept coming out and the condom kept coming off and sometimes he thought he was in when he wasn't! I didn't have sex for a LONG time before him so I was so disappointed! It got better as I got to know its limitations but the first time we had sex it was absolutely horrible!! But yes, the thought went through my mind if I could deal with that for the rest of my life and I was not sure. I did like him otherwise and pretty bummed out because he seems to be fading now, but one thing that makes me feel better is that if it worked out I would have to deal with a not so satisfactory size so, chances are the next guy I meet will be a little more "fulfilling".
Personality, character, education, decency, honesty, reliability, thoughtfulness, caring, kindness etc. are all going to take precedence over a few inches of turgid skin. There are many ways to have sex and to orgasm.
Would improve on my tongue and finger skillz and become the oral master ☝🏽️👅 Also it would be easy to give me blowjobs cause I'm small so yeah. ✌🏽 If it's 4-5 inches as you say then it isn't far too bad though tbh... 5inch is average in the UK
As a girl whose SO has a micro-penis, I can say that it doesn't really matter. So if I were the guy, I'd just live life normally. Enjoy my hobbies, settle down with a girl if I found one I liked, and just enjoy.
I would definitely go on living. I won't let it keep me down. I already have small boobs and an average size butt. Men have shown disapproval but I think about the good aspects of myself that makes me happy.
Honestly, I don't believe that having a small penis is that big of a deal. You can still make a woman satisfied. We don't need 9 inches. Our vaginas only have 3 inches of feeling. As long as he's a good match for me. I care more about his ability to hold a conversation, his ability to sustain his finances and interests. I'm actually abstinent with my current boyfriend and our relationship is amazing.
I wouldn't mind a small penis at all. 3,4,5,6 inches... that's where it is at in my opinion. I get off on friction during sex with my clit hitting your body so I like to stay closer so small dicks are great. You penis size doesn't effect things on that end for me so as long as you can still get off that wouldn't effect anything in a negative way... Plus oral would be waaaaaay easier. Sounds good all the way around! :D
4 or 5 inches isn't even small, it's average (also note: the average vagina is only 4-5 inches deep, soo)
I'd try not to worry about it.
Try to be good at communication; care what my partner wants and likes; try to find someone I'm sexually compatible with; someone who likes me for me - same as I do now really