I feel like ghosting is so common these days, especially with dating apps (which isn't really surprising). I'm only talking about ghosting after dates 1 through 3 - is that still okay? I know you are trying to get to know someone to see if you're interested, but for me, I will tell someone as soon as I know that I'm not interested. I don't think many people are similar anymore. It seems that no one thinks it's important to extend the courtesy of saying "I had fun with you but I'm not interested in you romantically," and instead they give you the silent treatment, as if that's just as respectful. It's not that I'm that attached to these guys, but man I've noticed just how common it is - and I really thought more people were like me (in being direct).
- Yes, you barely know each other so it seems natural.0%(0)17%(1)Vote33%(1)
- No. It's just common courtesy to directly cut to the chase, and it's cowardly to ghost.67%(2)67%(4)Vote67%(2)
- It depends - and I'll answer in a comment33%(1)16%(1)Vote0%(0)