Girls, Whats the difference between a guy friend, and a boyfriend?

How do they treat you differently? I've been confused why I have so many female friends but the few I have asked out don't want to be anything more than friends. So I want to know what it is that makes an man boyfriend material vs just friend material.

Guess the real question is, what makes the spark. I have asked guys this question and they just seem to act like ass holes. Mostly they encourage me to avoid getting to close. And don't be "to" nice.


Most Helpful Girl

  • Guy friends are people that I can talk to and chill with. I consider someone boyfriend material if I feel a deeper connection with them. So a boyfriend is pretty much that one guy friend I want to be physically close to and share eveything with.


What Girls Said 3

  • A guy friend is just that, a guy friend. You hang out, just as you do any other friend. A boyfriend is a guy who you share romantic feelings with and do other things with that you wouldn't really do with friends, like kiss them.

  • well, i don't want to date any of my guy friends lol. no chemistry. i love to hang out and talk with them, but there are no sparks. wish i could give you a better answer.

    • What do you think makes the spark? His appearance? Something he says? Or something else?

    • not their appearance. most of them are pretty cute. i really don't know tbh... it's just missing something. i like talking to them so it isn't something verbal either lol.

  • I don't wanna sleep with my guy friends.