I get very wishy washy whenever I'm involved with someone. It doesn't help that I'm a Gemini too. One day I'm all for relationship then the next I don't want to be bother. I delete the guy I'm dating number out my phone almost once a month it feels like. I'm starting to believe I don't need a relationship like it's not for me.
Most Helpful Guy
When I was your age, I tried dating and I'd have one date and be like... that really wasn't fun, I'm not liking this. I gave up and just decided to live my life and have fun with my friends.
Later on, I matured and I started to date and have fun and now I love dating and want a relationship. Some of this is timing. It is probably indicative of your emotional health and maturity. You could get relational counseling to dig through your childhood and see what is snagging you. Relationships are THE way to uncover all your human flaws so my sense says you are avoiding drudging up those things because they are painful... like a reflex to avoid the pain.
I'd talk to a counselor and process some of those old wounds and emotions... Read the book "Change your life in 7 days", McKenna for some self help. You are being drawn into relationship... so something is going on inside of you!
Let us know how it goes...0
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah I do believe that my ex isn't meant to be in a relationship, he can't communicate properly and can't handle his meltdowns.. he's not the type to tell you whats wrong so when something is wrong you are ignored and maybe someday he will be, he uses relationship as a distraction. Anyway Yes I believe some people aren't meant to be in relationships but doesn't mean they can't work on it.1