I remember one guy on here old me about this friend of his who dated a woman that intentionally acted like a bitch just to make her man step up and put her in her place cause in her mind 'thats how a real man is.
My stepmom was a chronically bitchy woman when she was married to my dad, and my dad is a very no-nonsense #NoBullshit type of guy. Now THAT was a toxic marriage; I was shocked they lasted 10 years together.
Why would a girl want to lower someone's dignity? Because that's a real man is? How on earth such girls manage to get into relationships?
Bitching is a common attitude. Most of the girls bitch sometimes. Some frequently, some moderately and some in minuscule limit. It gives us a reality check. It makes us realise that we are ignoring her and now we should do something good to her. But she's just misusing her bitching weapon. She's so full of herself, she's so intense.
No. We don't have girls like that. We ditch such mean girls instantly. Too much drama to handle. There are so many good girls to choose from.
Such girls are inferior. They fear that if they gave too much freedom, their man will get out of the hand. SMH.
I've dated many who did something like that at least once and a couple who did it regularly. I don't know about "putting in their place" but they wanted a show of assertiveness. I'm a very obliging person normally and to some women that can feel like weakness, most didn't make that mistake or didn't make it more than once but a couple seemed to get sexual excitement from provoking me into a show of strength of character, usually by trying some outrageous imposition. When I reacted by putting my foot down they would want sex right away. Kind of weird.
I have run across women like that, and they are simply not worth the bother.
Yes, you might fantasize about taking a bitchy girl apart, but again, there is a fine line between taming a shrew and getting thrown in the pokey for a night or two and then having something on your record.
Women are mostly submissive but they will test you to see if you are wearing the pants. Step up or she will not respect you which will lead to many problems. Put her firmly in her place as that is what she wants, this doesn't mean to push her down, it means to step up to leading and she will follow.
I would run like hell from a bitchy woman. Kindness is 100% necessary.
Yes. And it is freaking boring. Obviously it works because you end up all frustrated that she doesn't respect your intelligence enough to understand that you see through it... But emh... I guess it is still a win-lose, her-you.
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