So let's start with first place f all I know I was completely wrong for sending him such a needy text. We been dating for 2 months and everything was going great. He was on vacation for a week and told me how much he missed me and we got together as soon as we could when he got back and everything was great. Now I need to throw in here that he just started A huge remodel on his house and was doing a lot of the work himself on top of working at his job. So I knew he was super busy. The last time I saw him was Saturday night. I didn't talk to him Sunday. I sent him a text on Monday and he didn't reply. I didn't hear from him on Tuesday. I sent him another text on Wednesday afternoon keeping it very casual and he didn't reply. So this is where it gets bad. Wednesday evening I sent him a dupe long text saying I can't believe he would just disappear like that and how hurt I was about it and that I guess he changed his mind about me. Trust me when I say I went on and on. So anyway he called me about 2 hours later and said he was sorry that he has been incredibly busy and he didn't mean to hurt me. I told him how sorry I was and I shouldn't have freaked out like that. We talked about everything he was doing and the deadlines he was on etc. then he said he'd call me in the morning. Well he never called me yesterday or texted me. I'm not sure if he decided that I just wasn't worth it or what. I'm more confused then ever and I don't know what to do? Help me.
Most Helpful Guy
Sounds to me like an average guy that has a lot to do. What you girls might consider necessary (texting every day, compliments, gifts... etc) some guys just don't understand. I wouldn't give up on him just because of that, but try to make him understand how much you value keeping daily contact and maybe he'll get it eventually. :)0
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think your text is what turned him off, he called to apologize for not texting you back, so he understood and he was fine with it. It is weird that he is not even responding to your texts now but it has not been that long yet! He also just had a convo with you about how busy he is, he might feel like you two are good now and you understand how busy he is. I was seeing someone that NEVER texted me, I didn't text him either, I am not much of a texter unless it is to make plans, but it bothered me and I WISH I said something like you did! However, when this was going on I talked a lot to my friends guys and girls and we all came to this conclusion; Girls tend to focus a lot of their attention on the guy they are seeing and revolve their worlds around them. When guys are dating, you are added to his list of priorities but not the focus of them. If this is the busiest he has been since you met him (and house renovations are a HUGE stressor so I am guessing so) then he has a lot on his plate, you are still there, but his focus is somewhere else now. I would say to not keep blowing up his phone and realize you are still a priority but he has a bigger one to focus on. Back off a little and when his life calms down, he will come around, trust me.0