i dated this guy for almost 4 months... he wasn't sure what he wanted cause he was scared to get hurt if he commits.. i still like him very much and i'm not sure what to do.. do you think if i gave him more time things would have changed?
Most Helpful Guy
He's unwilling to commit because he's afraid of getting hurt?
Sounds fishy to me. Call me an asshole, but he sounds either emotionally weak/damaged, or he's using that as an excuse to stay on the free market.
Either way, I'd proceed with caution...0
Most Helpful Girl
"I'm too scared to commit" is the go to line of anyone who wants to keep their options open, get as much from you doing as little as possible and overall just isn't that into you. Most people are scared to get hurt in a relationship... it's a natural human emotion. That doesn't deter majority of people to fall in love and want a relationship with someone special.
I say keep your distance but don't completely shut him off. Just start to withdraw little by little to see see if he notices/cares and if he doesn't then take it as a sign to move on.0