I'm just curious since anyone who is shy doesn't seem like they would say what they truly want. Even more if you can't figure out how they truly feel about you.
What's your experience with dating someone who was shy?
- It can be37% (10)33% (11)35% (21)Vote
- Not really30% (8)30% (10)30% (18)Vote
- I hate playing the guessing game with them15% (4)18% (6)17% (10)Vote
- They actually say what they truly feel.18% (5)19% (6)18% (11)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
I dated a girl who was shy. I never knew what was going on with her, at all. Mostly, our dating consisted of just hanging out smoking weed with friends and lying in bed watching t. v. That was pretty nice, but our conversations were, well, fairly nonexistent. She was very, very quiet. Didn't extrapolate on anything. If I asked her a question she would respond 'yes' 'no' 'sure', stuff like that. She was shy most of the time. Her face was slack most of the time. Very little expression of emotion, whatsoever. Not happiness, not sadness, not anger, not frustration, not anything. But then we broke up, and a couple months later we were talking on FB, and she said "The only time I remember being happy was with you." I was shocked, because she didn't talk to me a lot. Not deeply.
So yeah. I think I agree with your statement. They don't say what they truly feel, and it is playing a guessing game. I had no idea she cared about me like that. If I would have, I might not have broken up with her.1
Most Helpful Girl
I won't lie, it's not only annoying but one of my biggest turn offs. I can't stand someone who won't show me there feelings and expects me to lead 100% of the time. It turns into a mommy-and-child experience and it tends to chase me off.3