We know guys like boobs but the thing is guys dont have boob size requirements. I have never among my friends or anywhere else heard about a guy who rejected a girl solely on the fact that she was a cup x instead of a cup y. Its usually a variety of reasons a guy would reject a great girl. I haven't heard any guy tell me that he turned down an amazing girl he really thought high of and who he would otherwise date if only her breasts are bigger.
Stuff like these are what we guys prefer, we dont place physical requirements.
The same cannot be said about girls. Girls place height requirements on guys (YES HEIGHT REQUIREMENTS). It means a girl will meet an amazing guy who has lots of great qualities but she will reject him for nothing else but the fact he's not a certain height.
I've seen this in real life over and over, my friend who's 5'4 got rejected by our mutual female friend who's 5'10, and she even admitted she'd date him only if he was taller. I was also rejected in the past for being to short, and the crazy part is, I AM 2 INCHES TALLER THAN THE GIRL WHO REJECTED ME. But apparently that wasent good enough.
So thats why, I believe deep down my heart, girls are more shallow than guys, even tough they categorically deny it.
And please dont bring up weight. Weight and height are not comparable even the slightest. There is nothing one can do about their height. I am 5'9 and can't change it, if you on the other hand are unhappy with yout weight, guess what, its your fault. Burn more calories than you consume, there you go, problem solved.
Most Helpful Girl
Okay I've dated a guy 2 inches shorter than me and that increased drastically whenever i wore high heels. I never really considered it a requirement. It's more of an added benefit. We're all different and not all of us are 'shallow'. I've also never heard of a girl rejecting a guy based purely on his height... As you say it's a combination of other factors.
Overall it sounds as though your bad experiences and your friends' experiences are affecting the way you think about the majority of us. Perhaps try meeting a different set of girls who care more about your personality than your height. And maybe you can try doing the same thing too. It might surprise you...0
Most Helpful Guy
I can understand the 5'10 girl who doesn't want to date the 5'10 guy but rejecting a guy who is 2 inches taller does seem a bit shallow. Still I think people should be a be to have whatever standards they want for a partner. If they think they would feel more satisfied with a taller guy then why should they settle.
My only issue is that girls freak out when guys have standards on stuff like weight or number of sexual partners.
They have no issue rejecting guys based on their height, something as you said guys have no control over. But god forbid a guy rejects a girl for her weight or number of previous sexual partners, both of which were things she had a great deal of control over.
Oh another thing is income, girls are much pickier about how much they want their partner to make.
Once again Im fine with that, just shut the fuck up when guys have standards too. As long as you dont belittle the person I think you should be able to reject a person for whatever reason you want.0