So I met this guy on a night out the other day we got on and kissed and he asked to put his number in my phone and for me to contact him to meet up by meet up I was getting the vibes he meant hook up. I've never had a guy give me his number before is this because he doesn't have to bother putting any effort in and he's not that bothered? Just curious, it's never happened this way round before.
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Well its something different. It could be a way to stand out and get in your head. Think about it, youve probably never posted a question about the numberous guys who have taken the typical path of asking you for your number. But here you are, on GAG, asking about the one guy who decided to give you his number rather than taking yours. So at the very least he surprised you and got you to think about him more than you would have otherwise.
Its also possible he believes you feel less threatened by his advances. Some girls might feel hesitant about giving a guy who they just met their number but if he gives you his its maybe less invasive and less likely to get initially shot down. you're more likely to refuse giving your number than you are to refuse taking his. So it kinda gives you more time to think about whether or not you want him to have your contact info instead of forcing you to make that decision on the spot.
Like instead of forcing you to give him a direct yes or no on the spot, its bassically saying "heres my number, so call me maybe" 😜.0