I'm honestly not trying to sound conceited, but I've often been told I'm above average, I'm a pretty confident, open and friendly person, so why can't i get a boyfriend? What am i doing wrong? Abd wgy can an average looking girl get a boyfriend easily?
It is unwise to compare yourself with others, especially in the human mating dance. I would suggest that you would be served better by a relationship with the right person, rather than a relationship for the sake of having one. Relax and stay alert for the sort of young man who can tick most of the boxes on your list of selection criteria.
Maybe you are looking in the wrong places? Are you social enough? Do you really try to meet guys regularly? Have you tried dating sites/apps? There's a lot you can do to maximize your chances of meeting guys.
Honestly Mayne you just haven't met the right guy. Also maybe it's the fact that you can't get a boyfriend you want. There are probably guys who have showed interest and you just didn't consider them am option. If at any point you have rejected a guy then it's no longer about getting a boyfriend it's about getting the one you want.
because average looking girls dont have high sctandards, they know they nore super hot so they give signs that you probably dont, maybe they sound more feminine than you, watch out for that confidence thing its good but its a two edged sword when it comes to girls and can make you seem less feminine, basically these are the reasons, or maybe its pure luck, shit happens trust me i know from my personal experience.
average girls are seen as less risk of being rejected. Most guys assume that hot girls have guys swarming them already, and they also assume that a lot of hot girls are bitches for sport... and so they can be afraid to approach them.
dont worry and dont rush into these things. when the time will be right it'll happen, and never compare yourself to others because you may not know whats their relationship is like. it could be very bad but it seems they are happy.
and i see much uglier and shorter men than me getting girlfriends, and i never had one. so what? i'm a weird antisocial beta. thats why i guess. i dont give a fuck about women and their silly little tastes anymore... . live your life the way it is. there are greater things than relationships... .