I ask this because I'm a good girl I don't party or do drugs not even alcohol, I stay home reading I dress casual but I like to dress without showing. I'm very friendly I love kids and animals I'm also kind and people always say I'm a good girl but what I don't understand is why do I always attrack guys in relationships or married.
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There are many possibilities to your situation. Let's take the optimistic approach and assume that you project what men really want and are a wholesome type of girl especially to men who are dating or are married to girls that are or have been very liberal with their bodies outside of/ during their relationships.
Let's now assume the more aggressive approach which is that the men who are in relationships neither respect the women they are with nor do they respect the relationship itself. These types of guys see a girl like you and think, she's so innocent... I bet she's naive and I can take complete advantage of her on the side. Basically your innocence and conservativeness turns them on. This happens more often than not but there are exceptions where men get tired of women of low standards and low morals and want a more conservative and confident woman. But those type of men should respect the situation enough to sever ties with the woman they don't want to be with before they pursue you. That is, assuming you are interested in that guy and made it known that you'd be interested as soon as he was single. If I were you that would definitely be a firm standard. Nobody likes home wreckers. I always think of situations as though I was on the bad end of the deal, how would I feel? That allows you to be considerate of the guys 'significant other' you don't know about, haven't met yet. Always get the whole story... it'll give you some idea of which type of guy you're dealing with.
To further explain why guys like this may think an innocent girl is naive comes from a predator mentality where a moral compass and innocence are both signs of weakness: I. e. You're either predator or prey. Not all guys think like this however the only reason I mentioned it is you suggested all of the interested parties were currently "in relationships." Hope that helped somewhat. At least it'll keep you from being manipulated by predators.1