Hi , I've had this problem ever since I've become a woman since I was 18 , I have no problem attracting guys as I'm easy on the eye and have a decent body but I dress appropriate never revealing and have s Tom boyish side to me I can be quite blunt and have to tell guys straight away I'm not interested in sleeping with them because that's usually what they ask or prosume I'm like, it's just frustrating as there is so much more to me deeper I have a lot to talk about and I have a lot more to me than being someone to sleep with , I don't get why I get treated like this? Can anyone shed some light?
Most Helpful Guy
It's not you it's the guys your at the age where that's what guys care about. That's why usually girls date guys older cause they are more mature and are past partying and just having sex with everyone. Well usually.
I'm kinda old fashioned and being older as much as being with a hot girl is a mans dream I've been with hot girls that I just didn't want to have sex with because personality is the biggest turn on and attitude.
You have a good head on your shoulders and know what you want and deserve and you'll find it it might take time but you'll find some lucky guy.2
Most Helpful Girl
Hello, I was recently in the same dilemma as yourself. I have come to the realization that it really is not me, its them. I accept the fact that I am a beautiful woman, that is easily approachable, and that I attract good looking men. Men of all statuses; I have had lawyers, police men, doctors, CEOs come after me. After my last experience, which is still fresh I have also come to the realization that I have to be aware of what it is I want in a man. That I have to know my value and worth, I have standards and I would not compromise them from any man. I will withold sex to weed out the men that are too impatient to wait. I have a right to sit back and be pensive about the men I am dating, since many of these I want sex men tend to move very fast pace. I can refuse a man, it is okay to be single, and lastly I should have a man work to get and attain me. I have been way too easy in the past. If you want a change of results, you need to start by a change of actions. All in all, it is okay to be selfish with yourself, with your body, your time, your conversations. You do not owe anything to the other gender. A man who truly has good intentions will stand the test of time, as well as love and appreciate you for who you truly are, guards up and all.1
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