I've been talking to a old classmate going on 3 weeks now. We are both extremely attracted to each other. I think that when we hang out there's a chance that we may have sex because the chemistry is so strong. Just looking at his pictures or hearing his voice is a turn on for me. I really want to have sex with him but I also want to date him and know him deeper. I want a connection with him too. Will having sex so soon ruin my chances of dating him? Will he view me differently.
Should I have sex with him or will it ruin things?
What Guys Said 3
There's no problem in having sex early, the problem is he shouldn't see u as a slut who sleeps with everyone.
How do u do this?
Act like u are just flowing with things and sex just happened naturally not that u are going to have just sex.
A guy should feel special that u have sex only with him coz he is special, and there's a very thin line.
So u can have sex with him but don't seem easy.0
Well if you think things are going very strong you both then you should make a move and see what happens.0
If you can wait wait go on dates and see how he feels.0
What Girls Said 2
No wait at least 6 weeks0
in my opinion i think there's something so much better about getting to know someone before having sex. I think it strengthens that connection. Sex can ruin chances for a relationship because it's a different connection. If you don't know him very well, chances are your relationship is based on physical attraction and that isn't enough to sustain a relationship.0