I've been talking to a old classmate going on 3 weeks now. We are both extremely attracted to each other. I think that when we hang out there's a chance that we may have sex because the chemistry is so strong. Just looking at his pictures or hearing his voice is a turn on for me. I really want to have sex with him but I also want to date him and know him deeper. I want a connection with him too. Will having sex so soon ruin my chances of dating him? Will he view me differently.
There's no problem in having sex early, the problem is he shouldn't see u as a slut who sleeps with everyone. How do u do this? Act like u are just flowing with things and sex just happened naturally not that u are going to have just sex. A guy should feel special that u have sex only with him coz he is special, and there's a very thin line. So u can have sex with him but don't seem easy.
in my opinion i think there's something so much better about getting to know someone before having sex. I think it strengthens that connection. Sex can ruin chances for a relationship because it's a different connection. If you don't know him very well, chances are your relationship is based on physical attraction and that isn't enough to sustain a relationship.
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