Is there such a thing as meeting the right person at the wrong time?
I've been seeing this guy and we both like eachother but he's moving to America in June for 6 months and then New Zealand for a year and a long distance relationship would not be realistic or good for ether of us.
personally, I'm a firm believer in whatever is meant to be will eventually find a way and if it's meant to be it will be :)
would love to hear other people's opinions though :) x
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Just to make it clear I'm not looking to make it sound like I'm waiting around for him. What I mean by 'if it's meant to be it will be' is that if we are meant to be together somewhere down the line he will come back into my life when it's right :) if I meet someone while he's away and I like them I will definitely consider dating them if I want to, but at the same time I'm not in a rush to find anyone, I'm just focusing on myself for now :)
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, When I started my new job several years ago I met and clicked with a female coworker, we got very close, I asked her out and she said she wasn't into me and had a boyfriend.( She was into me, I could tell as she never once mentioned this guy until that day)
I was hurt, I got over it and her... I bumped into her at work, to find out she was now single, and wanted to start talking to me again, she tried a few times, but the feelings I had were gone... all the love and affection I once felt turned to hurt...
Maybe if I had started my job a year later, we still would have clicked, and she would have been single and willing to go out with me?
So time does play into sometimes, she was the right girl at the wrong time.
Two things that you have to accept:
1. There are many "right people" in this world for you, you just have to find them...
2. You can't over think stuff like this, I tried, I put my heart on the line and it got destroyed, but I know she is not the one for me now. I will find another girl that I love, it might take a few more years but I have loved other girls before.5
Most Helpful Girl
don't have sex/kiss before he is moving, therefor when he has sex with somebody else while he is away you will be brokenhearted because it would be cheating.
just don't do anything until he is back. Wait for him, and by that I do not think: "Don't have sex with anybody else", but "have sex with whoever you want and he can do that too, but since you are not in a relationship neither of you is cheating on the other one, so you CAN continue to see him once he is back. Spend this 1.5 year thinking of how great it will be once you see him again. Be happy about what is yet to come.1
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