I'm a 23 y. o virgin engineering student from Ireland but living and studying in US. I'm a devout catholic. I started to take dating propsals this year. But, the problem is that I feel very insecure about my past. Last week, a 22 y. o girl tried to flirt me and I said I'm confused todays. Because, she was kind of super social girl, she must have at least 20 ex bfs. So, I want to have a girl like, I mean no history, and marry her after graduation and finding job, Is this a sexist and patriarchial attitude?
Regardless its unlikely you will get what you want. You are better off gaining sexual partners to catch up to the women in your dating pool than you are trying to find a girl who is equally inexperienced as you are.
Oddly you might even have better odds getting a virgin girl if you weren't a virgin. Many of them actually prefer a guy with a little bit of experience.
I dont see why that is wrong of you. If that absolutely is what you want you shouldn't settle for less. Good luck finding a girl that matches your wishes though. Just try and be open to other possibilities. If it is just that you are insecure about being a virgin that makes you want to date and marry a virgin though you should loosen up. If the girl really likes you she will guide you through it and excuse your fumbling around. The first time having sex with somebody is never amazing because you aren't used to eachother yet. So you shouldn't worrt much about that.
Nah. Every girls different. Just gotta find the right one