I am asking this question because I've seen a lot of contradicting opinions. I dont know whether those girls who say they are turned off by fit guys actually are or if they just say to get perceived in a certain way, like less shallow.
I am also asking because I have been lifting for about a year now to get bigger, and truth be told, I dont like it, its seems more like a boring chore. My only motivation is to be more attractive to girls.
I love exercising, but if it was up to me I would spend 100% of my exercising time playing ball, not lifiting weights, I just like moving around a lot. But this results in a more lean body as opposed to what I am now.
So I am curious, is it worth the effort, as a guy do you get more attractive by putting in time at the gym lifting?
Most Helpful Girl
It really depends on the girl. I know it's super vague and not helpful, but it's true. I'm a girl and I work out and lift, so I like guys who are more fit and have muscles also. But some of my friends like slimmer guys. It's really individual preference, and some girls do genuinely not like super muscular guys.
If you don't like working out then don't.0
Most Helpful Guy
yes they are. a fit body is attractive to every gender. notice that there are differences in what girls prefer on a man vs what guys think a man has to look like.
girls like a slim core and less thick arms then men usually think is attractive.0
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