So I met a cute guy at my college today.
I could tell he has something because he was very talkative almost seemed nervous but he started the conversation. He would talk about random things (Politics, military conspiracy) and look at in my eyes for short time then look away or around. Or if I was messing with my shirt or fingers he would look there. He seemed distracted and would look at passing people. He literally randomly got up left his stuff near me and randomly came back. He would not stay still.
I've known people with autism and asbergers and I wasn't sure what he might have... It could be asbergers because of the interest in one subject , and social awkwardness but... He started the conversation. I thought ADHD because couldn't stay still or focus for long. But then I thought maybes he's nervous?
by the way I don't care what he has he was cute! And smart ! Had a good job I just wish I got his name/ number 😞
he deffiantly didn't look like he would have any trouble with female
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I have adhd and ASD, the dude just sounds like he's nervous.
He would have been able to keep eye contact with you longer and focus on you better. Since you are a new person to him, if he had adhd that would have been easy to just focus on you. Even more when your something he finds really interesting. Only look away when that person is boring and talking about a subject we don't give a damn about.
I will admit, you made it sound like you could easily slap adhd kind of label which annoyed me a bit. Everyone these days seems to just slap that damn label on every person that acts somewhat like adhd. So nobody truly believes when someone actually has it. -_-0
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