How do you get a guy to ask you out?

there's this guy at my work and we've liked eachother for 5 months and have been flirting. We talk but its very superficial things, we haven't had a real like conversation exactly... Anyway so he's pretty shy and i can be too but I don't know how to get him to ask me out. Any pointers?


What Guys Said 2

  • If he is a shy guy then there is every chance he won't ask you out. With shy guys you need to take the initiative, you need to make the first move, if you keep waiting you will only get dissapointed, so make a move and ask him out instead.

  • Why don't you ask him out or you can tell him to ask you out

    • I second this, shy men more scared of asking a girl out than death. I don't mean to say that lightly either.

What Girls Said 1

  • Casually mention to him you're free this weekend and then take out your pocket knife and hold it near his thigh. He will get the message.