The biggest problems I have are:
1. I dislike my career and cannot go back to school
2. Girls don't like me
I feel so undesired by girls, I am 24 and never have had a girlfriend, sex, kiss or even holding hands... It's pathetic, I am a little bit shy... I do try to go out, make small talk, I don't really drink... but girls just don't like me, some find me attractive but I know as soon as I talk to them, they don't like me because I am shy...
My other problem, which I feel is linked to my no girl problem is my career.
I went to school for a couple years, for something I disliked ( I am terrible at my job and dislike it)
So I am stuck working at this job..
My mom is single and so I have to pay bills to support her and myself...
So my job is pretty good paying, so I am able to that, but I am unable to move out or get my own place...
And I have no idea what jobs/careers are for me, I just don't find interest in that many activities, hobbies or fields...
And I am busy with work, after work I am just exhausted and need to rest up for my next shift... it's burning me out...
I feel like, there is not a girl in this world that likes me... They just don't I am so lonely...
If I lift the focus away from girls, what is the point of life?
I have a job, I pay all my bills, so what? I just do this for the next 30-40 years? What is the point of that?
I am just bored, miserable and lonely...
I feel a bit better now,
I am going to commit to a new hobby, and just keep going at it...
Going to try to find a better job and research careers that I might like.
Going to save up, and maybe go back to school in the future...
And going to take a break from dating for a little while...
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