Basically he's been working really hard at work and I want to relax him. This is what I've planned so far. What else can I add? - home cooked chicken and veg pie for dinner (add chips possibly) - strawberries with chocolate dip for dessert - foot massage - light some candles and where some sexy lingerie during massage
Figure out his love language is: touch, words of affirmation, focused time, gifts, acts of service. then do that...
where were you when I was 21ish... jeesh... could you train some other women? start a club or something...:)
ideas... shoulder massage helps as that is where a lot of stress is. Soothing music or meditation music. Just be nice, not overly emotional... don't dump on him. not too much talking. You could do a fun mental exercise... like go on vacation in your minds and play out the vacation... dreaming it up as you go... that is fun. He may just need space and time along if he is an introvert... sorry, but true...
I was going to say carry out. because all the cleanup and stuff... puts a load on you. I actually would get more stressed knowing I'm putting you under stress... so keep it all in check. But fun little things help. that lucky!!!$!@#!:)
Dinner and massages are great. But if she truly wants me to relax, then she either needs to leave me alone, or lay down and snuggle with me without talking as we watch a movie/TV. If that causes me to take a nap, she did quite the favor.
Leave me the hell alone and don't touch my feet. The intentions are wonderful, and the meal is the only thing I see that I would like. When I need to relax, I like space. Also, when I want to relax, one of the last words I want to hear is "plan".
Wow seems excited... but it depends on Person to Person... And mood... I could suggest: 1. welcome him with a smile a real one and a hug. 2. Don't rush for complaints when he returns. 3. I personally like romantic songs. many more but you know him better than me so only you could decide.. All the Best
@Mimsy1990 these are all amazing and delightful things but honestly, some men relax by doing nothing at all. Give him a beer and turn on the game, or whatever he likes. Give him some space but please, oh please, invade it with all of these things later. You are such a catch for working this hard for him. I hope he knows it and shows it.
U can only do so much. I think u have done so much already not sure what's wrong with him. Remember there is always time to see u and for sex of he still loves u or wants u. I hope he is just busy with work.