It is very rare that I find a woman that I would consider dating. I'm 23 and only been in 1 relationship. It seems however that everytime I DO find what seems to be the one for me, there's always a big obstacle obstructing my path. How does it always work against me like this?
Why are there always obstacles and hurdles whenever I find what seems to be the perfect woman?
What Girls Said 13
This is literally so vague and no one can answer it lol. You might just have shitty luck with women or you pick the wrong ones. What obstacles?1
Because no one is perfect, and relationships are not "found", they are BUILT.
Everyone has baggage or issues. You need to determine what is worth working through and what the deal breakers are... PLUS, you are pretty young, so it's not likely you will find many women at a place in life where they are relationship material.
It gets better in your later 20's/early 30's. People are more stable in life financially. They usually have a steady job at that point and are finished with school. They know who they are and what they want in life.
At the end of the day, perfect women/relationships don't manifest on their own. YOU have to put in the effort to create and build the type of relationship you want, and be the type of person you would want to be in a relationship with.0
If you believe in god you could say that he hates you (cop out way) but it seems to me that because you seem to find several "perfect girls for you" that maybe they aren't in fact your ms right. I don't know but don't give up ok😊1
I know how you feel...
Every nice, funny, sweet guy who is ambitious and knows what he wants out of life is already looong taken. Rough.
Maybe specify your question a bit more - so it can be answered more accurately.0
welll... what is the perfect woman to you?
what type of woman is worthy of dating a young prince like yourself? lol sorry but i had to be a little sarcastic with you because the way you worded this made your self sound a little conceited.0
You need to take obstacle like challenge and go after girl of your dreams :):)1
Because love never comes easy.1
Because that's life...0
The perfect woman doesn't exist. I guess the perfect woman for you does though but you'll only realize she's perfect for you after you accept her flaws.3
What Guys Said 1
OBSTACLES are meant to be crossed. No success without obstacles.1