I've been seeing this guy and we get along great it's his birthday in about 3 weeks and I'm wondering do I buy him presents. If you were dating someone for such a short amount of time and they bought you gifts would it freak you out?
I really need help should I buy him a gift, yes or no?
think about it. if you were dating someone, and they knew your birthday was coming up, and they go you nothing, would it matter if you had been dating 10 days or 10 years? No. You would see that they didn't care enough to get you something, and you'd likely leave them.
it doesn't have to be anything expensive or extravagant.
even simple or symbolic one ! it's very important and nice of you and will make him admire that, it's the gift type which can make him panic, choose very simple one, something small symbolic which he can keep with him during day and remind him of you, like a key chain or a lighter or a man bracelet bla bla bla, but keep in mind the gift type doesn't matter the presentation is way more important !
No because birthdays are irrelevant and celebrating them long after the fact makes the celebration very late. Besides, why would give presents to someone who has a birthday? Being born is not that hard, is it? Usually you would think birthdays would favor the person who gave birth or the person who helped or assisted, rather than just the birthee...