I'm 17 and I have a friend. We known each other for a few months now. He's a really sweet person and last week we confessed our feelings to another. I want to be with him and he wants to be with me. Problem is, we're both in a relationship. He doesn't see his going anywhere. And mine.. well my boyfriend lied to me saying he was 17 coming to find out he's 14. I dont think I could continue with a 14 year old since I'm going to be out of school in a few weeks (graduating). I don't want to tell my friend to leave his girl for me, I don't believe in disrespecting relationships. We talk and he calls me babe and all those sweet things. I guess you can say we're secretly seeing each other. I dont know what else to do. Any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
you're both young, if you like each other and are over your current relationships, break the off and date each other.
by the way that was shady af of your boyfriend to lie to you0
Most Helpful Girl
Your current boyfriend lied to you. That alone is a reason to leave him. If you don't have feelings for the 14-year-old, then end things with him. He just broke one of the elemens of a successful relationship.
Wait for your true love to be single again and date each other. Don't be a third wheel as of now.0