Nice is good but not what attracts you. What attracts is confidence, strength, and a small bit of risk taking. I'm talking based on what I saw and experienced in real life. Before, I was a nice person, but I had a weak body and low confidence and was afraid to take risks, and girls only saw me on a friend level. I worked on becoming fit and strong, I have better social skills now, I'm more confident and not afraid to take small risks, including flirt, and I generally get better responses from ladies. I'm still a nice person, and I think I would have still been friendzoned instead of friend-with-potential-zoned if I didn't work on the other three.
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That "something". I have no idea what it is. I met a lot of good looking, confident, funny guys and still didn't liked them. On the other hand, I also met some not so good looking, not so confident and not so funny guys that I did like. It's so weird. I guess it's all about the spark that we don't have a control over.
But if I have to choose, funny and confident basically. And not too nice. by the way it's same for girls, nice girls don't get much attention. They are usually seen as too sensitive and too emotional and no one wants that. They get put in a friendzone a lot too.0