My girlfriend finally contacted me back, after about 3 weeks. I really liked this girl and I felt we had a good thing going. She told me she had a boyfriend the whole time and felt guilty and went back to him. They broke up again and she wants to come back. What would you do?
Just to let you know, we weren't really a couple, just experimenting and good friends. But why wouldn't she tell me?
Do not take her back. All of this back and forth she is doing is completely unnecessary. She obviously doesn't know what the hell she wants. She needs to figure it out--but in the meantime, you need to stay away and focus your time and energy on someone who actually gives a damn about you, because she does not.
Honestly if it where me I'd except that it was nearly a moment and try to except that she has a partner that clearly she's not leaving for me. Did tell her that it's her choice and to pick who ever she wants but I can't stay in a messed up situation. Then I would give options which are me or him and tell her to pic by the weeks end and if the week comes to an end without a decision being said aloud then I would move on with my life and leave her.
You have to follow you heart. And in this case I would say: get back in touch and talk, talk, talk. If she's not just running to you since she's in distress, but really missed you and wants to lay herself in your arms, you'll be happy you gave her the chance :D
What I hate is when people have nothing better to do, they are your friend. But when someone better comes along they jet. That sucks. I even feel that way about friends after they get married. I feel betrayed.
Cause obviously she was cheating and she didn't want to admit it. I think it's fine if you go back with her. Don't think of yourself as a rebound or anything, people experience love and relationships in many different ways.