I'm a 24 y. o guy. I just graduated from mechanical engineering this year. I have never had a girl friend. But, I'm handsome sometimes my friends say so. I'm not skinny nor fat. People tend to generalize people like me so. I'm tallish 1.86m and I have swimmer type of body. And can defend myself agaist a bad boy type. I do hiit and swimming regularly. I just had no chance to break my comfort zone and have a girl friend. Also, our schedule was killing me last years.
I want to marry early, but my special makes me unconfident. I mean I feel like Steve Carrel in 40 y. o Virgin.
Do women really like bad boy type of guys instead of nice family guys?
- Yes, I love bad boys.29%(25)39%(57)Vote53%(32)
- Nope we are not submissive. I like nice guys.71%(60)61%(88)Vote47%(28)
Most Helpful Girl
I think people confuse the two types of "bad boys" there's the bad boy who mess with girls, just fuck them and leave, uses people, usually only cares about himself, has a unhealthy life style and is unloyal and dishonest and then there's the "bad boy" that girls do want. In reality he isn't a bad boy at all but he's given that title because of a few exceptions like he's do anything for her including breaking the rules. He's confident and protects her. He's a little bit of a rebel. (Not rebel like you'll end up in jail cuz he's doing really dangerous stuff) bit little things. That's the "bad biy" I think girls want. In reality they are good guys, not actually bad just daring but the majority of bad boys real bad boys are fuckboy and the 1st definition I gave.
Your young and I'm sure you can find someone because you sound great. You just have to put yourself out there don't be a bad bou, be you, and one day you'll make a girl very happy and be happy yourself. But you have to put yourself out there if not, none of us good girls will be able to find you6
Most Helpful Guy
Most girls like a bad boy whether they admit it or not.
The trouble is that people see these things as black and white when that's not how it is, for example your poll says "I'm not submissive, I like nice guys" - I'm a nice guy, yet I'm also the dominant one in my relationship. There's a different between being dominant/ taking charge and being a controlling asshole. There's a difference between being a bad boy and just being a misogynist who treats women like shit. It's all about balance.
Nice guys are usually seen as boring and unattractive mainly because they self-censor themselves, because they're too afraid of offending people and possibly being seen as an asshole or being disliked. With women, they don't flirt that much or show any sexuality because they try too hard not to come off as creepy. Often they try too hard to impress the girl rather than it being a two way thing where both get to know each other and reciprocate.
Women take it that these guys have no balls, obviously this isn't attractive. This doesn't mean you have to go the complete opposite direction and treat women like shit, just don't be a kiss ass, don't be afraid to speak your mind or disagree, let her know you like her, be real.1