So I'm in the situation of not being able to keep a conversation going with women. I'm a college sophomore, and I have tried to make conversation with the women in my classes and around campus, but most of the time they just end after the first few responses. I can have a okay conversation with a girl, but the next time I see her in class she doesn't acknowledge me at all. I find that very odd. Call me old fashioned, but i say hello to any acquaintances in a class.
But back on subject, any ideas on what i can do to improve conversations I have with women?
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Here is what works best for me:
Get her talking about herself. Don't just sit there and listen passively. Engage her, ask follow up questions, and reply in a way that makes her laugh.
Here's a short example of the conversation I had with my last girlfriend before asking her out.
Me: Is that a swim team sticker on your folder?
Her: Yeah, I did swim in high school.
Me: Oh awesome, I tried it once... didn't work out.
Me: I realized that I'd rather just float around... you tend to sink if you forget you're in a pool.
Her: -laughs- So you're not into any water sports?
Me: I am. I scuba dive. But, my wetsuits are always loose... I think I need to do some squats.
We kept this going for a good hour. She would ask questions, I would reply in a way that would make her laugh, and she would talk about herself even more.0